Internet love scams occur when someone takes advantage of a person's trust and emotions in
order to gain access to their financial resources. Ironically, clever successful women may be
more susceptible because they may have fewer people in their lives who can spot the warning
signs of such scams. They may also be too busy to devote the time necessary to truly get to know
someone before investing in the relationship. Additionally, scammers often target those with
successful careers, as they are perceived as a better target for financial gain.
Scammers are scrupulous in targeting victims who are lonely and possibly looking for love. The telltale signs of the potential victim is usually detected in their social media postings. It is not that difficult for the meticulous scammer to identify vulnerable victims. From a psychological perspective, there are several factors that make certain women more vulnerable. These include feelings of loneliness, low self-esteem, a strong desire to be loved, a need for
attention and validation.
Additionally, the inability to detect deception and to recognise warning signs, an eagerness to
trust, a tendency to idealise people, and a lack of caution when conversing online can increase
the likelihood of falling for an internet love scam.
It is better to check in on older loved ones every now and then. It is advisable to ask questions
about individuals attempting to isolate themselves from friends and family or requesting inappropriate
photos or financial information. It is better for everyone to not over-share personal information
on social media and to be suspicious of people not meeting in person. Even if it is a case of a genuine
romance, it is better to go slow and ask lots of questions. Finally, it is always good to trust one’s
gut feelings on the matter.
Dr. Andrew Mohanraj 